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Are you devastated from your breakup and you know that if you could just get your ex back the tears would stop. You fear that it's really over and the pain is unbearable but still, all you want is to get back together with your ex. You are determined and you know that with the right words and the right attitude you really can get him back.
All of this is well and good until a short while later you feel the stinging pain of your broken heart as you scream into the night for the pain to stop. What can you to do bring him back? What can you say or what can you to do change his mind? How can you bypass the pain and just get your ex back in your arms once again?
If I could be granted one wish right now it would be that you get your ex back quickly and easily. You want you to be in love again and I want you to experience all the joy that a happy relationship can bring. I wish this for you because I know how painful a breakup can be but I also know how wonderful it can be to get your ex back and to have them fall in love with you all over again.
Now, you might think that you are at a dead end for what to do to bring him back. You think that you've done all that can be done. You've made concessions and promised anything and everything if he would just give you a second chance. Yet, still he rejects you and things actually might seem worse for your effort. If you knew what would change his mind you would do it without question, I know.
Once you understand what is wrong and how men think, getting him back isn't going to be much of a chore at all. The problem is that right now you're working with a bit of an emotional handicap. You might not know it but the blow that your ego has received from the rejection from your ex has caused you to not be able to think right about your relationship. You are desperate for a solution and willing to do anything to get him back and those aren't a good combination right now. But with a positive attitude and some self-confidence you can get him back quickly and easily.
I know that you think that everything that you have been doing is right. You are sure that the way to get him back would be to be good and kind to him. You might think that staying in touch with him just in case he changes his mind is the way to go but the opposite is actually true. By pushing your relationship on him and continuing to try, you are actually hurting your chances of getting him back. Just think about it for a minute. Even a dog that has been kicked doesn't keep on coming back for more.
Instead of trying so hard right now, take some time to get yourself back to normal. Take some time to get your life back and heal your heart a little bit. Cry if you need to in the quiet of your night but don't you ever let him know that you cry for him. Don't call him or text him or try to talk to him about anything right now. This is your time and you're going to blindside him when the time is right. Take this time to prepare yourself and get feeling good about yourself.
This is the time for you to heal your heart. It is a private time when you should focus on making yourself happy for the moment. Treat yourself with the kindness that you wish your man would bestow upon you. This is your time to watch silly movies that he probably didn't want to watch. This is your time to sit on the couch and eat a roll of chocolate chip cookie dough with a fork in your bathrobe if you want. This is your time to buy that over prices pair of heels that you always wanted or to spend a day at the spa if that's what it takes for you to feel special and loved by yourself.
You might not understand this right now but there is some truth to the fact that you need to love yourself before someone else can love you. In addition, other people, including your ex, like being around people who are happy, self-assured and optimistic about their bright future. People, especially your ex, tend to shy away from others that have a lot of drama in their life. So, now is the time to eliminate the drama and build your life so you can be happy and so your ex can see you for who you really are. You're not that woman who he rejected that still wants to get back together with him. You're that woman that he left that makes him wonder why the heck he left you in the first place.
Even though I can't give you all the advice that you might need to help you to get your ex back, this is a good starting point. These are the first steps in getting your ex back and what I have shared with you should help you to set the stage that will lead him to wanting to get back together with you. You can come through this and you can get him back if you are patient with yourself and you understand the relationship dynamics that can lead to him falling in love with you again.
All of this is well and good until a short while later you feel the stinging pain of your broken heart as you scream into the night for the pain to stop. What can you to do bring him back? What can you say or what can you to do change his mind? How can you bypass the pain and just get your ex back in your arms once again?
If I could be granted one wish right now it would be that you get your ex back quickly and easily. You want you to be in love again and I want you to experience all the joy that a happy relationship can bring. I wish this for you because I know how painful a breakup can be but I also know how wonderful it can be to get your ex back and to have them fall in love with you all over again.
Now, you might think that you are at a dead end for what to do to bring him back. You think that you've done all that can be done. You've made concessions and promised anything and everything if he would just give you a second chance. Yet, still he rejects you and things actually might seem worse for your effort. If you knew what would change his mind you would do it without question, I know.
Once you understand what is wrong and how men think, getting him back isn't going to be much of a chore at all. The problem is that right now you're working with a bit of an emotional handicap. You might not know it but the blow that your ego has received from the rejection from your ex has caused you to not be able to think right about your relationship. You are desperate for a solution and willing to do anything to get him back and those aren't a good combination right now. But with a positive attitude and some self-confidence you can get him back quickly and easily.
I know that you think that everything that you have been doing is right. You are sure that the way to get him back would be to be good and kind to him. You might think that staying in touch with him just in case he changes his mind is the way to go but the opposite is actually true. By pushing your relationship on him and continuing to try, you are actually hurting your chances of getting him back. Just think about it for a minute. Even a dog that has been kicked doesn't keep on coming back for more.
Instead of trying so hard right now, take some time to get yourself back to normal. Take some time to get your life back and heal your heart a little bit. Cry if you need to in the quiet of your night but don't you ever let him know that you cry for him. Don't call him or text him or try to talk to him about anything right now. This is your time and you're going to blindside him when the time is right. Take this time to prepare yourself and get feeling good about yourself.
This is the time for you to heal your heart. It is a private time when you should focus on making yourself happy for the moment. Treat yourself with the kindness that you wish your man would bestow upon you. This is your time to watch silly movies that he probably didn't want to watch. This is your time to sit on the couch and eat a roll of chocolate chip cookie dough with a fork in your bathrobe if you want. This is your time to buy that over prices pair of heels that you always wanted or to spend a day at the spa if that's what it takes for you to feel special and loved by yourself.
You might not understand this right now but there is some truth to the fact that you need to love yourself before someone else can love you. In addition, other people, including your ex, like being around people who are happy, self-assured and optimistic about their bright future. People, especially your ex, tend to shy away from others that have a lot of drama in their life. So, now is the time to eliminate the drama and build your life so you can be happy and so your ex can see you for who you really are. You're not that woman who he rejected that still wants to get back together with him. You're that woman that he left that makes him wonder why the heck he left you in the first place.
Even though I can't give you all the advice that you might need to help you to get your ex back, this is a good starting point. These are the first steps in getting your ex back and what I have shared with you should help you to set the stage that will lead him to wanting to get back together with you. You can come through this and you can get him back if you are patient with yourself and you understand the relationship dynamics that can lead to him falling in love with you again.
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